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		<title>By: lorena casio</title>
		<link>http://simplemom.net/put-yourself-first-for-a-healthy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-63223</link>
		<dc:creator>lorena casio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 00:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>as a student we no that study s the most mportant in our lives.because some times we know that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>as a student we no that study s the most mportant in our lives.because some times we know that.</p>
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		<title>By: What Do I Do When My Spouse And I Aren&#8217;t On The Same Page?</title>
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		<dc:creator>What Do I Do When My Spouse And I Aren&#8217;t On The Same Page?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 08:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Over-functioning and under-functioning are positions that we occupy in response to how we do life. None of us is all one way all the time - we over-function in some areas of life and under-function in others. One thing to keep in mind, is that if you&#8217;re over-functioning for someone, by definition you are under-functioning for yourself. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Over-functioning and under-functioning are positions that we occupy in response to how we do life. None of us is all one way all the time &#8211; we over-function in some areas of life and under-function in others. One thing to keep in mind, is that if you&#8217;re over-functioning for someone, by definition you are under-functioning for yourself. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: What Kids Need Most - Cool Parents &#124; Simple Mom</title>
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		<dc:creator>What Kids Need Most - Cool Parents &#124; Simple Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 08:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] month we explored putting yourself first for a healthy marriage. This time, we&#8217;re going to explore where you are in relation to your [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] month we explored putting yourself first for a healthy marriage. This time, we&#8217;re going to explore where you are in relation to your [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
		<link>http://simplemom.net/put-yourself-first-for-a-healthy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-34836</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 21:40:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is so true. When I started to enact boundaries in my relationship, great things happened. I was able to allow myself to do things that I wanted instead of putting them off until later to be with my boyfriend and then feeling a bit spiteful if we didn&#039;t have the perfect night. We allow each other space now and boy, it&#039;s a relief!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so true. When I started to enact boundaries in my relationship, great things happened. I was able to allow myself to do things that I wanted instead of putting them off until later to be with my boyfriend and then feeling a bit spiteful if we didn&#8217;t have the perfect night. We allow each other space now and boy, it&#8217;s a relief!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://simplemom.net/put-yourself-first-for-a-healthy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-34188</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2009 03:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I absolutely love that article.  My husband and I are always reminding each other that the best gift we could ever give our boys is to keep our family together.  Great great great article!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sarah&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://allhailqueenmommy.wordpress.com/2009/02/05/mommy-time/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mommy time&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I absolutely love that article.  My husband and I are always reminding each other that the best gift we could ever give our boys is to keep our family together.  Great great great article!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Sarah&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://allhailqueenmommy.wordpress.com/2009/02/05/mommy-time/" rel="nofollow">Mommy time</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: marathonrunner</title>
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		<dc:creator>marathonrunner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 01:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post is so insightful! I like your advice and I think you are so right about having to love yourself before loving others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post is so insightful! I like your advice and I think you are so right about having to love yourself before loving others.</p>
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		<title>By: The Constant Complainer</title>
		<link>http://simplemom.net/put-yourself-first-for-a-healthy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-33713</link>
		<dc:creator>The Constant Complainer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 22:52:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a first time visitor to your blog.  I came across it on Blog Catalog today when I was doing some research for one of my own posts.

Truthfully, I come across a lot of blogs, but this one really caught my eye and this post was incredibly powerful.  I just read a number of your previous posts too.  But this one really made me take the time to reflect.

Thank you and I will visit back for sure.

CK
a.k.a. The Constant Complainer
Cleveland, OH

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Constant Complainer&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://theconstantcomplainer.com/?p=94&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Utter Negligence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a first time visitor to your blog.  I came across it on Blog Catalog today when I was doing some research for one of my own posts.</p>
<p>Truthfully, I come across a lot of blogs, but this one really caught my eye and this post was incredibly powerful.  I just read a number of your previous posts too.  But this one really made me take the time to reflect.</p>
<p>Thank you and I will visit back for sure.</p>
<p>CK<br />
a.k.a. The Constant Complainer<br />
Cleveland, OH</p>
<p><abbr><em>The Constant Complainer&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://theconstantcomplainer.com/?p=94" rel="nofollow">Utter Negligence</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: BlapherMJ</title>
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		<dc:creator>BlapherMJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 20:15:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great article.  I was previously married and am now in a committed relationship.  Fantastic to read!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;BlapherMJ&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://laughfriendly.com/blaph/?p=182&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Thursdays Thoughts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great article.  I was previously married and am now in a committed relationship.  Fantastic to read!</p>
<p><abbr><em>BlapherMJ&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://laughfriendly.com/blaph/?p=182" rel="nofollow">Thursdays Thoughts</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Corey - Simple Marriage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corey - Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When you discover the areas of life where you feel stuck or unsatisfied, the only wrong choice at this point is to do nothing. Good luck on your next steps.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Corey - Simple Marriage&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.simplemarriage.net/complaining-%E2%80%93-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Complaining – the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you discover the areas of life where you feel stuck or unsatisfied, the only wrong choice at this point is to do nothing. Good luck on your next steps.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Corey &#8211; Simple Marriage&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://www.simplemarriage.net/complaining-%E2%80%93-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly.html" rel="nofollow">Complaining – the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Corey - Simple Marriage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Corey - Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 13:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah- You&#039;ve been reading Simple Marriage as well. Thanks.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Corey - Simple Marriage&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.simplemarriage.net/complaining-%E2%80%93-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Complaining – the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah- You&#8217;ve been reading Simple Marriage as well. Thanks.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Corey &#8211; Simple Marriage&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://www.simplemarriage.net/complaining-%E2%80%93-the-good-the-bad-and-the-ugly.html" rel="nofollow">Complaining – the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly</a></em></abbr></p>
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