Comments on: How To Live Dangerously In Marriage

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By: Therabreath

Therabreath — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 08:59:48 +0000

I salute you for a very realistic post. I can say how hard you tried to put these thoughts all together and it moved me, actually there are many of us who were moved by it. I have to say I am happily married for a little more than 2 years and it frightens me to read articles like this but I do because I want to be watchful of my acts in our relationship. I want to do what is right and have to set limits for myself. I love my husband and I love our marriage – working it out is really important to me.
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By: Bonnie

Bonnie — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 13:51:33 +0000

I really appreciate you writing this informative article. I agree with throwing away the score card. It is important to forgive and go on to strengthen the relationship.
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By: laura @ peacoat

laura @ peacoat — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 04:17:22 +0000

i cannot tell you how much i like this post. the hardest time i’ve experienced with my husband was when we were dating and he was embarking on a new adventure that had nothing to do with me.

even then i knew i was jealous, and wish i had handled the whole thing differently, but you live and learn and i’m determined not to make the same mistake again.
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By: Pyrrh

Pyrrh — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 00:34:23 +0000

A beautiful post. Also remember that we don’t marry mind readers. If you need something (like a hug because you’re feeling down) then ASK. Your spouse will usually be more than happy to accommodate, and feel great that they could fulfill a need. Don’t make them guess, it just isn’t fair!
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By: Andy Brown

Andy Brown — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 19:13:36 +0000

Good post and great advise! So many words to live by. Check out my new blog; Wives, Girlfriends and Lovers at: http://wivesgirlfriendsandlovers.blogspot.com/
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By: Rhonda Steed

Rhonda Steed — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 15:29:43 +0000

Two weeks before my husband and I were married, my little sister was in a horrible car accident. She died after a week on life support. That Saturday we had a funeral. The next week we got married on a Friday. Was it hard? OF COURSE. She was my best friend. My only sister in a house of 5 brothers. But it sealed my husband and I together in a way that other couples are not. If you respond appropriately to struggle and hard things, they can bring you closer instead of further away.
(And we’ve been in higher education 7 out of the 9 years of marriage. Is he learning lots (oh YEA! he’s now a medical resident) But i’ve found ways to learn and grow and we’ve always put each other first (right after God) and we’ve got a very good marriage!
Great points you made!!
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By: Melanie at Parenting Ink

Melanie at Parenting Ink — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 14:53:16 +0000

I think couples, especially couples with young children, need to find ways to connect and create intimacy at home. Finances don’t always allow for babysitters or for dates away from home.
We like to go for a night swim together, share a glass of wine, or cook together.
One thing I know for sure: watching TV together does NOT create intimacy!
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By: Kendra@www.thebutterflynest.blogspot.com

Kendra@www.thebutterflynest.blogspot.com — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 12:48:56 +0000

So true!

I had to say, though, that I got a little bit of a laugh about the graduate school tidbit. My husband is in a doctorate program, and we’ve talked about the fact that the divorce rates are high for doctorate students… BUT, I know for a fact, at least for us, it isn’t about one person growing and the other not… it’s about the stress and time involved. Of course, he also works 12 hour days in school administration (who also have higher divorce rates) and we have a two year old who doesn’t sleep. Ever.

I know it’s morbid, but we joke that we have the “perfect storm” to put us on the track to divorce.

All kidding aside, stressors of any kind can be really hard on a marriage, and sometimes just saying to each other, out loud, “These things are causing stress in our marriage. We better watch it.” can go a long way to lighten the mood and push both of us to finding ways to reconnect.
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