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As I mentioned yesterday, we’ve started giving our three-year-old daughter an allowance in exchange for simple household chores.
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I know that $2.45 weekly isn’t going to buy much more than M&Ms or a bouncy ball. But that’s not the point. The point is, we want our kids to start learning how to manage money early.
I’m a Dave Ramsey-ite, but this idea is not trademarked by him. The basic concept of giving, saving, and spending has been around for generations, and we want to keep it that way in our family. The sooner our children understand that our money is given to us by God, and that out of thankfulness, we give some of it back, the easier it will become a lifelong habit.
Saving money likewise requires discipline, and to practice the art of paying yourself first, even from the 17 nickels like we did last week, will reap benefits that far outweigh whatever could be bought with 1.7 coins.
So when we give our daughter her allowance (or commission, or whatever you want to call it), we count the stickers on her chore chart, and then count out the same amount of nickels. We then tell her how much goes into the giving jar, and how much goes into the saving jar. The rest goes into the spending jar.
Her spending money can go towards whatever she wants. That means that yes, if she’s in the grocery cart and she wants those gummy bears, she can buy them if she has enough money. But it comes out of her spending jar. (A side note: Of course we take care of her needs, and yes, we buy her gifts from time to time. Not a lot, but we aren’t expecting our three-year-old to fend for herself financially. That would be nice, though, wouldn’t it?)
We haven’t used this system long enough to really see the longer-term benefits, but friends of ours who use this method have nothing but good things to say.
There’s a guy in his mid-30s from our church back in the States who bought his family’s Suburban with 100% cash from his childhood allowance. We don’t really have those kind of expectations for her giving and spending goals, but again, the account balance is not the point. The point is cultivating a habit in preschool that’s hard for grown adults to do. Hopefully, her heart will follow.
Isn’t that a great gift to give your kids? It really is all about changing your family tree, one small thing at a time.
How do you work out money with your kids?
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I love reading posts on how different people handle the allowance/commission topic. As a child (and as a teenager), my mom did everything for me and my brothers. My bed was always made before I even got out of the shower. I can only remember one time in my life when we were offered chore money. But we had no incentive to do anything because my mom always did it and the money incentive didn’t last very long. I definitely want to have a different situation with my girls. I am going to save your chart and definitely use it in about 1 1/2 years when my girls are 3!
Oh BTW, what program do you use to make all your charts? I am trying to make a weekly docket instead of a daily docket (I need to see the week all at once and want to plan menus in advance and it can be all in one place) but I have no clue where to start. Thanks!
We use a chore chart system identical yours for our kids’ pocket money. We haven’t implemented the 80/10/10 split though, but I think we will. It seems like a good next step. Only my eldest (6) has grapsed the concept of saving at this stage - he saved $50 for a toy he wanted. The younger girls tend to spend their pocket money each week.
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I love what you’re doing. We’re not quite ready for it yet (our son is almost 2), but I can’t wait to teach him about money.
@Lynn - I use Adobe InDesign and Photoshop. I’m also a part-time freelance graphic designer, so I already have those programs on my MacBook.
@Journeyer - That’s great about your son! $50 is quite a bit at his age.
@bee - Thanks! Hope it may work well for you one day.
Thanks! I have photoshop but I have yet to figure out how to use it! LOL! Now might be a great time!
@Lynn - It’s a wonderful program; I feel like I use it everyday. That’s probably because I do.
I really like your system. I wish my parents had given me this kind of tool regarding money when I was little. Thankfully my husbands parents did a far better job with him and we tend to balance one another out quite well.
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LOVE THIS. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. I wish my parents had taught me about managing money, especially starting in childhood. We plan on doing this as well!
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@Jen, Megan - Yeah, I wish I learned it earlier, too. But it really is great passing it on to our kids.
I really enjoyed your thoughts on this. I started my blog about a month ago, and recently posted about this same idea, and how it works for us. I’m so glad to see someone else cheering on others who are teaching children these values at a young age!
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Great idea - I’m still trying to learn how to manage money!
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We started giving our 3-year old daughter allowance a couple weeks ago and we use a check system on the bulletin board (2 or 3 chores) the Moon Jar that my husband got for her so she can save, spend or share it. She doesn’t really get this part but I think she is starting to get the spending it part if there’s something she wants we will take money out of her jar to let her use it for that item (usually $3 or under!). The main thing I make her do is clean up her toys from the living room and so if she says she doesn’t want too I tell her “then no allowance for tonight, no check.” She always chips in and does it.
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