Weekend link love: the in the air AGAIN edition

baby on a suitcase
Photo by Andy Sidesiger

As you’re reading this, my little family and I are probably somewhere over the Atlantic Ocean, flying back home.  Since we’ll be dealing with jet lag, getting reacquainted with life as expats, and generally readjusting, you’ll be enjoying some Simple Mom reruns and some fabulous guest posts for the next week or so.

My online access will be sporatic at best, so if you write me, please be patient if you’re waiting for a response.  If I have the chance to do some blog reading, I’ll definitely link my favorite finds in my Tumblr account – just click “finds” up top.

With all my crazyness, the types of reading that has meant most to me?  Peaceful.  Here are some great reads to help you breathe a sigh of relief.

Which blogs inspire you?

Have a great weekend!

Make sinking funds work for you – no matter how you’re paid

stacks of coins
Photo by Jeff Belmonte

Many of you have written me with this question – how do you budget for annual expenses when you don’t have a regular income, or when you don’t get paid monthly?

Budgeting might seem a bit easier for us because my husband gets paid monthly – one paycheck to one monthly budget. But it’s not really that much different than if we were paid bi-monthly or weekly, even though most bills are due once a month.

Just like using a sinking fund account to set aside money for those irregular, annual expenses, you can create accounts to build up funds for your monthly bills.

One of the main reasons I use ING Direct as our main bank is because it is incredibly easy to set up as many savings accounts as we need. All tied to one main checking account, we have a myriad of savings accounts set aside for all sorts of expenses. ING allows you to name each account whatever you want, and you can transfer money between the accounts instantaneously.

If you pay your mortgage each month, but you get paid bi-monthly, simply set aside half of your mortgage each paycheck into a sinking fund labeled “mortgage.” If you pay your auto insurance every three months, and you get paid every week, determine the number of weeks in three months – 12, usually. Each paycheck, transfer your insurance premium total, divided by 12, into a sinking fund labeled “auto insurance.”

How It Works For Us

When our paycheck comes to our checking account via direct deposit, we immediately allot our designated funds to their appropriate savings account – and quite often, we use the handy automatic transfer feature to handle our regular sinking expenses. Right now, we have four accounts, and they all serve a specific purpose. Here’s what they look like at ING:

1. Holidays and Gifts

Each year, we decide how much we will spend on Christmas, and we simply divide that total by 12 – that’s the amount we automatically transfer each month to our Christmas account. Very simple.

We then decide how much we will spend on birthdays, Mother’s and Father’s Day, our anniversary, and holidays like Thanksgiving and Independence Day. We don’t predict every penny – we just pencil out estimated expenses and round to the nearest dollar. We total that up, and divide by 12.

And finally, we guesstimate how many babies and weddings will cross our relational paths that year, and tack on about $15-$20 per event – and then divide that total by 12. The sum of all those monthly numbers become our regular, automatic transfer into our holidays and gifts account.

2. Giving

We give ten percent of our income to our local church (our tithe), and because we have a set salary, we automatically withdraw the same amount in cash at the beginning of each month.

But each year, we also decide how much we’ll give above this amount, both to planned charities and to unexpected burdens to give (we like to give a big tip to a waitress each Christmas, and sometimes we want to donate to a great cause with an urgent need). This is an amount we pray over, so it’s more of a spiritual issue than a math one for us. We take this total, divide by 12, and have this amount transferred to our giving account each month.


My daughter playing near my feet at a nearby beach.

3. Vacation

Our vacation fund is pretty laughable, but because we live overseas, we want to take advantage of our locale while we’re here – even if it means just a few day trips here and there. But we can’t have those vacation weekends on a whim if we don’t have the funds set aside.

We decide on a set amount each year, divide by 12, and then have that amount automatically deducted into our vacation fund. We let this account build up gradually, and we use the amount in there determine how we spend it. So if we feel like checking out a nearby village that gets cool reviews in the travel guide, we’ll look at our account, and use that number to determine whether we stay for the night or just make it a day trip, whether we rent a car to get there, or whether we take our slower-but-cheaper public transportation system.

4. Work Expenses

My husband sometimes has work expenses that we need to pay for out of pocket until we get reimbursed. For this, we transfer a regular amount each month into our work expenses account, so that when he needs to pick up an unexpected printer cartridge for his office, it’s not cutting in to our family’s grocery budget. We’ll purchase the needed item using our checking account, and then that day, we transfer the spent amount from the work expenses account to our checking account – thus reimbursing ourselves, in a way. And when his company cuts him a reimbursement check, we put it into our work expenses account, ready for the next purchase.

5. Online Profits

spring cleaningMy Paypal account is tied directly to our online profits account – so when I get paid from an Etsy buyer, an advertiser, or when one of you buys my ebook (and thank you, by the way!), the funds go directly there. We don’t actually live on any of these profits – all online-earned money goes to our long-term financial plan a la Dave. For this reason, we like it to go directly to the online profits account first, instead of our everyday checking. We don’t want to accidentally use that money at the grocery store – but if we ever need to, we can instantly transfer money from this sinking fund into our checking account with no waiting.

6. Emergency Fund

And finally, our basic Emergency Fund is also housed in a simple savings account with ING. We don’t touch this unless there’s, well, an emergency. And because we make a zero-based budget each month, an emergency rarely happens. But when it does, we’re ready.

Photo by d70focus

Why I Like Internet Banking

There are a wide variety of online banks, but we ultimately chose ING Direct because most of the personal finance blogs I trust recommended ING. And we’ve been incredibly happy with them – their customer service is top notch, and their website interface is extremely easy to use. When you call, you get a real live person who’s not annoyed that you’re interrupting their solitaire game.


Click here to start saving with ING DIRECT!
With an internet bank like ING, you still need a traditional brick-and-mortar bank to handle your incoming paper checks. Because ING doesn’t have traditional bank locations with tellers needing a paycheck, they can pass on a decent interest rate to their customers. It’s gone down in recent months, but their current savings rate is still better than most traditional banks’ basic savings accounts.

Making It Work For You

So for those of you who don’t get paid monthly – and even for those of you who don’t get paid the same amount each pay period – you can make sinking funds work for you. Instead of diving by 12, like we do, divide by the amount of paychecks you receive each year. So if you get paid every two weeks, divide your annual totals by 26. Then make your automatic transfers happen every two weeks.

If your income fluctuates, determine your annual expenses’ percentages. To make things easy, let’s say your annual Christmas budget is $500. If you get paid $400 one week, determine the percentage alloted to Christmas for that paycheck.

It might seem like a pain to allocate these funds with every single paycheck, but when you have a banking system that transfers money seamlessly and instantly, it only takes a few minutes. Those few minutes are certainly worth the peace of having your Christmas funds effortlessly ready for you come December. And when money allocation becomes one of your regular home management tasks, it just feels like part of your job as a steward of your family’s finances.

How do you set aside funds for irregular expenses? Do you prefer digital tools or pen and paper?

Q&A Tuesday: Do you buy organic?

This topic has been on my mind with our second book for the book club, Animal, Vegetable, Miracle, headed our way in a few weeks.  I’d love to hear your thoughts, particularly because most of you are not only the home managers of your family, but also because most of you make the everyday purchasing decisions in your home.

Here’s today’s question:

How important is buying organic food for your family?  Has this changed with the economic slowdown?  And if you had to choose, when one takes precedence for you – buying organically, or buying locally?

I look forward to hearing your thoughts!

Introducing: the Daily Docket’s little sister

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Photo by J.B. Hill

One of my unexpected surprises with this blog is the spread of my little old Daily Docket.  It makes my day that so many of you have written to tell me you use this simple tool to manage your day.  And it thrills me when you tell me in person, and go out of your way to show me your Docket!  Truly – I’m so glad my tool works for so many of you as well.

The number one request for an addition to the Docket is a smaller size. I hear you.  Even though I print my Dockets two-sided, I still don’t like using that much paper – seems so… anti-Simple Mom.  So I’ve created a scaled-down version of the original Daily Docket, fitting on half a standard US-letter page.  Now you can print four to a page – two front and back.

This doesn’t have all the bells and whistles of the original Docket, because there just isn’t enough room.  Call it the Daily Docket Nano – it still has the basic framework of a full-sized Docket, just taking up less room.

Here’s what you’ll find:


1. What’s for dinner?
This is still at the very top of the page, because it forces me have a plan for that evening by the morning I fill out the Docket (and many times, I fill it out the night before).

2.  Today’s To-Do List. There’s still a max of ten items on my checklist, which helps me keep it to only what’s realistically possible for one day (and who are we kidding – I very rarely check off all ten).

3.  MITs. To the right of the To-Do List is a place to star any item that qualifies as a Most Important Thing.  These are the things on which I should focus most my energy – if I get anything done today, it should be these.  It’s really important to have a maximum of three MITs – too many, and they dilute themselves.  You have to be selective about what qualifies as an MIT – if nothing else gets done, I’d say my day was a success if those three things happen.

4.  Schedule and/or Appointments.
This is the spot where you can jot down your tasks that have a time framework – a doctor’s appointment, meeting a friend for coffee, or even a set time when you want to exercise.  Whatever needs to have a set time assigned to it, you can scribble it here.  You might remember that at one time I tried to schedule my entire day, in the name of staying disciplined and being productive.  It did the opposite.

5.  Notes. The bottom still has a place to doodle your thoughts, ideas for tomorrow, phone numbers, or whatever else doesn’t fit in the framework of a to-do list or an appointment.  This is where your right brain can roam freely.

If you like having place to write Scripture or something else meaningful to you, a reminder for your exercise and water intake, a mini-checklist for your side work (like if you work part-time, or if you blog), or if you generally prefer having more of a timed schedule, then the original Daily Docket is for you.  It’s still available free for download!

woman juggling
Photo by Lucy Boynton

The important thing as a home manager is to do what works for you.  Don’t put false pressure on yourself to fit a mold of ultimate productivity, as though there’s a specific definition to “a woman who gets a lot done.”  Find your rhythm, stay flexible for those curve balls thrown at you all day (kiddos waking up sick, anyone?), and focus on only those things that really matter.  That’s when the concept of MITs come in handy.

You are the best person to be Mom to your kids.  No one else can be the partner to your spouse like you. And the tasks that go with those significant hats you wear – well, I for one believe that if God’s called you to do those things, He’ll give you the ability to do them.

And if you like having a tool to keep you motivated and on track, then perhaps the Daily Docket or the Daily Docket Nano* would work for you.  Just go with whatever works.

*I really need to come up with a better name for that.

Download your Daily Docket Nano here, or head over to the downloads page to find all the free downloads on Simple Mom.

What’s on your short list for the ultimate productivity tool that works for your life?

Weekend links :: finding 10 spare minutes

flipflops on a swing
Photo by Bethany

Shock of all shocks, I actually had a few spare minutes to read blogs this week. It was the first time in months. Seriously.

Here were some of my finds:

Fix The Top 6 Causes of Clutter :: Real Simple on CNN, via Unclutterer

Tote Bag pattern :: J. Caroline Creative, via How About Orange

• The Crisis of Credit, part 1 and part 2 :: sent by Nicole of Burning Bushes (and I agree with her – the characterization of an irresponsible family is a bit much)

5 Lovely Ideas for Adding Ambience and Cheer Into Your Life :: The Inspired Room (that post title just puts me in a good mood!)

Quality Time: How To Find More and Some Ideas on How To Use It :: Simple Marriage

• How To Tablescape With What You Already Have :: Nesting Place

Good To Own: Useful Tools :: Small Notebook

How To Make Homemade Peanut Butter :: Joy The Baker

How I Cut My Television Bill In Half :: Get Rich Slowly

Paying Off Credit Card Debt in 6 Simple Steps :: Frugal Dad (if you haven’t done this in your life yet, please – do so)

Have a good, relaxing weekend – be sure to look through more of my finds up top (click on the “finds” tab).  And look for a new free PDF from me on Monday!